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Week 05

Red Couch Theology

Sermon Conversations with Alex and Aaron

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Red Couch Theology2023-03-25T11:03:24-06:00

God Plans Disaster for You?

“Now therefore say to the people of Judah and those living in Jerusalem, ‘This is what the LORD says: Look! I am preparing a disaster for you and devising a plan against you. So turn from your evil ways, each one of you, and reform your ways and your actions.’” Jeremiah 18:11

Wow, when I read texts like this, I squirm a bit. How about you? I understand that sin and evil are bad. I understand that God needs to deal with the evil in the world, and justice is certainly a good thing. That doesn’t make it any easier for me to read that God is “preparing disaster for you.”

First, let me explore why this idea might be uncomfortable for some of us. Most Christians embrace faith in Jesus because they learn of Jesus’ death on their behalf. We hear that Jesus loves us, and it is a powerful truth. The gospel we encounter is beautiful, rich in grace, and wide enough to cover even our sins. Then as we progress in our Christian journeys, we find ourselves reading passages like this and questioning the heart of God. Why does the God of Jeremiah seem so different from Jesus? What is God like anyway? These questions are completely valid and have plagued many a learning Christian.

To complicate the issue, later in the book of Jeremiah, we encounter a very well-known verse that seems to contradict what Jeremiah has already said. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).” So which is it? Does God plan disaster for us, or does he plan a future for us? The answer must be yes. Maybe a better question is, how does he do both? The answer to that question is hinted at right in this verse. God’s heart is that his people turn: “turn from your evil ways, each one of you, and reform your ways and your actions.”

There are two ways to think of discipline. The first is like an angry parent trying to get his children to behave. The child’s actions annoy the parent; the parent disciplines the child to stop them from the frustrating behavior. That is a discipline that is deficient of the discipline that we find in the scriptures. Perhaps a better way to think of God’s discipline is to think of it as the discipline of a loving coach. A coach may demand much from a player. They may demand that players push themselves far beyond what they would naturally push themselves. A good coach does all this because they believe in the athlete and they believe their student is capable of more. God is like that coach in this text. He wants what is best for his people and is willing to train them for that.

Take a moment to imagine the face of God when he disciplines you. Do you see an angry, frustrated, or annoyed face? Try to shift that expression to one of an encouraging coach. How does that shift how you receive discipline from God?

God Plans Disaster for You?2023-03-25T20:15:22-06:00

Repentance – the Key to Unlocking the Heart of the Potter

This is the word that came to Jeremiah from the LORD: “Go down to the potter’s house, and there I will give you my message.” So I went down to the potter’s house, and I saw him working at the wheel. But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands; so the potter formed it into another pot, shaping it as seemed best to him.

Then the word of the LORD came to me: “O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter does?” declares the LORD. “Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel. If at any time I announce that a nation or kingdom is to be uprooted, torn down and destroyed, and if that nation I warned repents of its evil, then I will relent and not inflict on it the disaster I had planned. And if at another time I announce that a nation or kingdom is to be built up and planted, and if it does evil in my sight and does not obey me, then I will reconsider the good I had intended to do for it. Jeremiah 18:1-10 NIV

The Merriam Webster Dictionary definition of repent is: to turn from sin and dedicate oneself to the amendment of one’s life, or to change one’s mind. The Greek word used in the New Testament for repent means to turn around 180 degrees and go in the opposite direction. The Biblical understanding of repentance is: to change our thinking that leads to a change in our attitude and our feelings that changes our values which results in a change in our actions and how we live. With that understanding in mind, let’s look at Jeremiah 18:11-12.

“Now therefore say to the people of Judah and those living in Jerusalem, `This is what the LORD says: Look! I am preparing a disaster for you and devising a plan against you. So turn from your evil ways, each one of you, and reform your ways and your actions.’ But they will reply, `It’s no use. We will continue with our own plans; each of us will follow the stubbornness of his evil heart.'” Jeremiah 18:11-12 NIV

God wanted the people of Judah, the leaders and the ordinary people alike, to recognize that they had sinned against God and were continuing to sin. He desired that they confess their sin and turn 180 degrees around to walk in the opposite direction. There are many promises in both the Old and New Testaments that if an individual person or a group of people will repent, confess, and turn from their sinful ways, then God will forgive.

…if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. II Chronicles 7:14 NIV

Because he considers all the offenses he has committed and turns away from them, he will surely live; he will not die. Yet the house of Israel says, `The way of the Lord is not just.’ Are my ways unjust, O house of Israel? Is it not your ways that are unjust? Therefore, O house of Israel, I will judge you, each one according to his ways, declares the Sovereign LORD. Repent! Turn away from all your offenses; then sin will not be your downfall. Rid yourselves of all the offenses you have committed, and get a new heart and a new spirit. Why will you die, O house of Israel? For I take no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Sovereign LORD. Repent and live! Ezekiel 18:28-32 NIV

Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord, Acts 3:19 NIV

Repentance is something we all need to do. It requires us to examine our lives, our thoughts, our actions, our words. If the Holy Spirit convicts us of sin, then we need to confess it to God, agree with God that it is sin, turn 180 degrees around and change our attitude, our thoughts and our actions so that they are in line with what God wants us to do, to say or to think. Listen to this song by Keith Green, listen to the Holy Spirit, pray through it as God leads you. https://youtu.be/mD2PJ0xbAdY

Repentance – the Key to Unlocking the Heart of the Potter2023-03-25T09:26:59-06:00

The Heart of the Potter

This is the word that came to Jeremiah from the LORD: “Go down to the potter’s house, and there I will give you my message.” So I went down to the potter’s house, and I saw him working at the wheel. But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands; so the potter formed it into another pot, shaping it as seemed best to him.

Then the word of the LORD came to me: “O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter does?” declares the LORD. “Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel. If at any time I announce that a nation or kingdom is to be uprooted, torn down and destroyed, and if that nation I warned repents of its evil, then I will relent and not inflict on it the disaster I had planned. And if at another time I announce that a nation or kingdom is to be built up and planted, and if it does evil in my sight and does not obey me, then I will reconsider the good I had intended to do for it.  Jeremiah 18:1-10 NIV

God tells Jeremiah to go to a potter’s house and he will receive a message from God there. The imagery of a potter and clay is used many times in the Bible. In every case, God is the potter, and we, his creation, are the clay (Job 10:8-9, Isaiah 29:16, Isaiah 45:9-12, Romans 9:20-21).

Let’s consider the heart of the potter. Jeremiah tells us there was a flaw in the clay, it was marred; it was ruined; it needed to be fixed, to be reshaped, to be remade. Remember, God is the potter; we are the clay. Jeremiah is God’s prophet, proclaiming to the people of Judah that God will bring disaster on Judah if they do not repent. But God also communicates His desire to save, to restore, to rebuild – if the people of Judah will acknowledge their sin, repent and turn to God. The message is the same for us in Colorado in 2023.

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.  I John 1:9

The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.  II Peter 3:9

The heart of the potter wants to rebuild, to restore, to save us. God desires our restoration, not our destruction. God is poised, anxious, ready to offer a way out of the disaster. But He can’t do that if you and I are not willing to admit we have a problem. If you and I continue to go on our merry way, saying “peace, peace,” when there is no peace, if we pretend that all is well in our world, then God can not offer the solution to the problem, because we do not even see that there is a problem.

“O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing. Matthew 23:37 NIV

Turn to me and be saved, all you ends of the earth; for I am God, and there is no other. Isaiah 45:22 NIV

Can you see the heart of the potter, the heart of our savior? He desires for us to be restored to fellowship with him. He loves us, wants to protect us in the same way a mother hen does her chicks. Reread the verses above. Focus on the heart of God – the heart of the potter. Thank Him for His love for you.

The Heart of the Potter2023-03-25T09:12:21-06:00

The Potter and God’s Process

God told Jeremiah, “Up on your feet! Go to the potter’s house. When you get there, I’ll tell you what I have to say.”

So I went to the potter’s house, and sure enough, the potter was there, working away at his wheel. Whenever the pot the potter was working on turned out badly, as sometimes happens when you are working with clay, the potter would simply start over and use the same clay to make another pot.

Then God’s Message came to me: “Can’t I do just as this potter does, people of Israel?” God’s Decree! “Watch this potter. In the same way that this potter works his clay, I work on you, people of Israel.

At any moment I may decide to pull up a people or a country by the roots and get rid of them. But if they repent of their wicked lives, I will think twice and start over with them. At another time I might decide to plant a people or country, but if they don’t cooperate and won’t listen to me, I will think again and give up on the plans I had for them.”

“So, tell the people of Judah and citizens of Jerusalem my Message: ‘Danger! I’m shaping doom against you, laying plans against you. Turn back from your doomed way of life. Straighten out your lives.’”

“But they’ll just say, ‘Why should we? What’s the point? We’ll live just the way we’ve always lived, doom or no doom.’” Jeremiah 18:1-12 MSG

I wondered why God would tell Jeremiah to go watch the potter at his craft before he gave his warning message through Jeremiah to the people of Israel about the consequences of their continued rebellion against him. I don’t know much about making pottery (though I have some lovely pieces hand made by some friends), so I looked for information. I found a lot of tutorials on Youtube that won my appreciation of the time consuming process of preparing clay, the precision involved in centering clay on the wheel and the craft of shaping it with the careful pressure and movement of the potter’s hands.

However, for the purposes of this devotional, the best information I found was in these two books: Run With the Horses, Eugene Peterson’s book on Jeremiah (referring to Jeremiah 12:5), and A Layman Looks at the Lord’s Prayer by W. Phillip Keller. Each of them has chapters on the potter’s house, the potter, and the importance of pottery, and the value of the metaphor as it points to how God desires to shape and mold us into the image of Christ.

Eugene Peterson points out how revolutionary the invention of pottery was to the ancient way of life. For centuries nomadic people had to constantly move around in search of food and water for their families and herds, because they had minimal ways of carrying food and water with them. When pottery became available, it was possible to safely store grain and carry water. It also contributed to people being able to stay in one place near a source of water, and grow and store their own food.

In his chapter on “In Earth, as it is in Heaven”, W. Phillip Keller describes his visit to a primitive potter’s little house in Pakistan. He and a missionary friend were shown the complete process: from reaching down into a pit for a suitable handful of clay, kneading it into pliability, placing it precisely on a heavy round stone and shaping it as a beautiful goblet.

Keller was deeply impacted throughout the experience about how, in each part of the process, God brought to his mind scriptures from the Psalms, the Lord’s prayer, and Jeremiah, that searched his own heart and soul. Particularly telling was when the potter’s hands began to feel resistance in the clay from minute bits of sand which ultimately destroyed the original design and necessitated making something different from the same clay.

A question for each of us: how resistant am I to God’s molding and shaping process in my life? Join me as we each ponder this question and ask God what he desires to do in our lives. Also, I recommend both of the books as additional encouragement in the process.

The Potter and God’s Process2023-03-25T08:58:34-06:00

The Way of a Witness

Am I not free [unrestrained and exempt from any obligation]? Am I not an apostle? Have I not seen Jesus our [risen] Lord [in person]? Are you not [the result and proof of] my work in the Lord? If I am not [considered] an apostle to others at least I am one to you; for you are the seal and certificate and the living evidence of my apostleship in the Lord [confirming and authenticating it].

This is my defense to those who would put me on trial and interrogate me [concerning my authority as an apostle]: Have we not the right to our food and drink [at the expense of the churches]? Have we not the right to take along with us a believing wife, as do the rest of the apostles and the Lord’s brothers and Cephas [Peter]? Or is it only Barnabas and I who have no right to stop doing manual labor [in order to support our ministry]?

If we have sown [the good seed of] spiritual things in you, is it too much if we reap material things from you? If others share in this rightful claim over you, do we not even more? However, we did not exercise this right, but we put up with everything so that we will not hinder [the spread of] the good news of Christ. 1 Corinthians 9: 1-6 and 11-12 The Amplified Bible

It seems strange that Paul would have to defend his authority as an apostle because he chose to freely give up his rights to be supported by the church for preaching the good news of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

But, considering the societal mixture of the Corinthian church, it isn’t surprising:

The Romans were the power and, possibly wealthy, people. They would expect a preacher to exercise their rights to be paid for preaching.

The Greeks were the intellectuals and likely looked down on anyone who worked at manual labor (making and selling tents) in order to support themselves as preachers of the gospel.

The Jews would not have been so upset, because it was customary for rabbis to have an occupation by which they earned their support.

Paul is showing this immature, divisive group of people a different way of responding, to freely give up their due for the good of those who had come, and might come, to Christ Jesus through the gospel message. Though he hadn’t directly mentioned it yet, he was beginning to teach them that the way of Jesus is LOVE, and what love is like.

I am grateful that we now have the scriptures they didn’t have, and that we can move around in scripture to find how Jesus lived the gospel. We now can learn what Paul wrote in the epistles about God’s love and how to learn to live in the way of love.

In Colossians 3:12-14 Paul conveys this love.

So, as God’s own chosen people, who are holy [set apart, sanctified for His purpose] and well-beloved [by God Himself], put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience [which has the power to endure whatever injustice or unpleasantness comes, with good temper]; bearing graciously with one another, and willingly forgiving each other if one has a cause for complaint against another; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so should you forgive. Beyond all these things put on and wrap yourselves in [unselfish] love, which is the perfect bond of unity [for everything is bound together in agreement when each one seeks the best for others]. The Amplified Bible

Ponder and pray over the devotionals this week that encourage us to live in the way of Jesus with his heart. I’ll be praying for God’s blessing on your life as you go through your week!

The Way of a Witness2022-10-08T23:00:39-06:00

Turning the Other Cheek

So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12 NIV

The very fact that you have lawsuits among you means you have been completely defeated already. Why not rather be wronged? Why not rather be cheated? Instead, you yourselves cheat and do wrong, and you do this to your brothers. I Corinthians 6:7-8 NIV

The Corinthian church displayed its immaturity by various members taking each other to court. Paul expresses frustration with them, and says, “you have been completely defeated already,” I Corinthians 6:7. Some Corinthian church members are behaving like they are young children, disputing over whose toys were who’s in the sandbox. It is a natural human reaction to want to retaliate against someone who has wronged us, hurt us, or offended us. But Paul is trying to change the Corinthian church members’ thinking. He wanted them (and us) to live out the way of Jesus with the heart of Jesus – in how we treat those who are our enemies or those who offend us.

Matthew 5:38-48 and Luke 6:27-36 record Jesus’ teaching on how we are to treat other people who we may view as our enemies. Retaliation has no part in Jesus’ teaching on this subject. The principle I see in these passages is “generosity”. Jesus encourages us to freely loan to others, to offer more than was asked for, and to bless and pray for those we may see as our enemies. Jesus calls us to be merciful as God has been merciful to us – to be willing to forgive and not to retaliate – as God has forgiven us.

Sometimes I find these teachings difficult to actually carry out. How about you? I do think we Christians cannot actually do this in our own strength, because if we relied on our own strength, we would be just like the Corinthians, fighting over who took what toy in the sandbox. But God has called us out of the sandbox; he has called us to maturity, to grow, to become more like His son Jesus in our ability to love other people. Paul said, “Why not rather be wronged? Why not rather be cheated?” I Corinthians 6:7b. The Corinthians were insisting on their rights and on being right, instead of being willing to forgive, to extend mercy, to turn the other cheek.

The Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5:6-7 presents many of Jesus’ teachings on how we as Christians are to treat each other in the Kingdom of God. Take some time this week to read through the Sermon on the mount in one sitting. Notice which part seems impossible to you. Pray about that. Ask for insight, ask for direction, and sit at Jesus’ feet and listen.

Turning the Other Cheek2022-10-08T22:40:34-06:00

Settle Matters Quickly

So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. Come to terms quickly with your accuser while you are going with him to court, lest your accuser hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the guard, and you be put in prison. Truly, I say to you, you will never get out until you have paid the last penny. Matthew 5:23-26 ESV

When one of you has a grievance against another, does he dare go to law before the unrighteous instead of the saints? Or do you not know that the saints will judge the world? And if the world is to be judged by you, are you incompetent to try trivial cases? Do you not know that we are to judge angels? How much more, then, matters pertaining to this life! So if you have such cases, why do you lay them before those who have no standing in the church? I say this to your shame. Can it be that there is no one among you wise enough to settle a dispute between the brothers, but brother goes to law against brother, and that before unbelievers? To have lawsuits at all with one another is already a defeat for you. Why not rather suffer wrong? Why not rather be defrauded? But you yourselves wrong and defraud—even your own brothers! 1 Corinthians 6:1-8 ESV

America’s Founding Fathers established a government system of laws patterned after ancient Rome and Greece. As you become acquainted with the multitude of federal, state, county and municipal laws, codes and regulations that have proliferated since then, it will boggle your mind. The other aspect of these laws, codes and regulations is, as administrations change, more changes in law occur. Yikes!

This expansion is so out of hand that in 2011, Harvard University professor Harvey Silverglate wrote a book entitled “Three Felonies a Day”. Silverglate’s book hasn’t had the impact he hoped. Organizations or individuals are devising more laws and bringing more criminal lawsuits than ever to settle trivial issues or simply punish someone they don’t like.

As you read the above words of Jesus and Paul, this trend is nothing new.

Have you been tempted to settle a relatively trivial matter with another follower of Jesus by calling your lawyer and dragging the matter into the public square? The above passages urge us to settle those issues quickly and keep them “in the family”.

There are gnarly, deeply serious issues that require the benefit of secular court proceedings so they may not inflict immense damage to the reputation of Christ’s body – but those issues tend to be rare. Jesus and Paul are not talking about murder and criminal sexual misconduct.

There are various reasons for the Church to have elders in any local body. If you have a dispute you can’t work out with your fellow believer, take it to those elders. Settle it before things escalate (to a World War Something status).

Don’t wait and let your problem with your brother develop into a Hatfield–McCoy situation.

There is every indication that consistent failure to settle family disputes results in what today is termed a dysfunctional family. Failure to address issues quickly also results in corrupt practices.

Read the above passages again. Allow the Holy Spirit to speak to you. If the Spirit reminds you of a problem you have been ignoring that you have with another Christian, ask for guidance in moving toward a settlement without a lawsuit. If you know of an unresolved situation between two other Christians that’s getting ugly, prompt them to bring it before an elder in your church (you may be that elder) – or a wise Christian if the two aren’t attending the same church.

Settle Matters Quickly2022-10-08T17:49:56-06:00

When the Rubber Meets The Road

I saw a short documentary once about the discrepancy between sports fans and sports heroes. Some sports fans are rather vocal about how they want the players from their favored teams to perform. They zealously express their commentary on Twitter or in comment sections of various other platforms. In this documentary, the producers would challenge fans who had publicly mocked an athlete’s performance to see if they could perform any better than the athlete. It was rather funny to see these outspoken fans attempting to achieve the essential skills of their favorite sport. They left the experience with far greater respect for the athletes they had once mocked.

It can be easy to treat the doctrines of Christianity in a similar way. We hear Jesus’ teachings and may applaud them, but living them out is often more complex. The book of First Corinthians is one of the first examples of Christians trying to figure how to apply Jesus’ teachings in the real world. When you read Paul’s instructions to this church about “lawsuits”, you are not simply getting instructions for the church today; you are seeing him wrestle through how the “way of Jesus” applies to such matters. The lesson for us today is to be ruthlessly committed to using the teachings of Jesus in our everyday lives. Theology shouldn’t exist in a vacuum. It is only credible if it is true to how God has made the world to work.

Practice applying your faith in everyday life this week. Do you have a project you are working on? Is there a decision you need to make? How do you think Jesus would advise you to make the decision? How might the “way of Jesus” inform the effort, method, or focus of your project? Let’s not become couch potato Jesus fans who never live out what he teaches.

When the Rubber Meets The Road2022-10-08T17:38:11-06:00

A Word On Singing At South

Today isn’t exactly a Devotional, I am sorry. Instead, we wanted to publish an episode from our Midweek Podcast about this week’s subject. In this video, I share many of the reasons why we choose to sing the way we sing at South Fellowship Church. I know it’s much longer than the content you usually read here. On top of that, This particular Podcast episode is longer than usual. I apologize for that but I thought it was content that could help you understand why we do things the way we do them.

If you like these kinds of conversations, you can subscribe to our podcast on your favorite podcast service or find the video version on Youtube each week. We talk about the previous weekend’s sermon every week.

A Word On Singing At South2022-08-19T10:20:48-06:00
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